How to Control Ourselves?

I did not understand this question before.I try my best to find one kind of free life-style,playing happily ,speaking casually,laughing loudly---One day ,I saw I was so stupid,because I did not know others were taking advantage of me .Those people are always keeping smiling on their face , though they come across someone they hate a lot.In fact ,I can not do like that ,I only want to protect myself,as we know ,it is very hard for this kind of person like me.

My techer said if someone who can control his own feeling can control others ,you will be successful.I don not agree with her ,because I felt doing like that is very empty .I never learn well,I am a delicate flower with a lot of water in my body ,if I betry my heart ,my everything will die.


Everyone should believe youself ,if someone want to hurt you ,do not make yourself fly into a fury,try to smile .

It is me

I am a happy girl,I never care the diffculties in my life ,I often say if the sky destroy ,sleeping is still my life and escaping is still others'.Though It is a joke ,you can know my feeling throughly.I always have a chat with my friends ,so directly and frankly.I often do work without any plan and encourgement.


I like travelling ,running and watching TV.I never read novels about ''love''and ''kongfu ''.In addition, I like cars very much,all kinds of cars.


I know What I am ,I know I should change myself.I will try my best to do it.Come on ,my friends!

Friend

How should we explain this word ''friend''?In fact ,it is very hard to explain !In my opinion,friends should like our familes ,when we feel sad ,so do they .They can share our sorrow at least .Best friend must konw the telephone number of my parents .Of course ,as best friends ,we need time to stay together ,time to play ,time to talk ,time to keep a distance .Maybe someone feels we should tell our secrets to them ,otherwise the relationship will go bad .Don not use''happiness''or ''bliss''to explain all the feelings of your friends,because it is not very practical .I bet there are collisions sometimes.At that time,don't be upset ,communicating is most necessary for both of you .

It is impossible to make friends with everyone,because we are very diffent from everyone,as we konw being similar is a very important factor.Two persons have same interests and emotion.Don't force ourselive to accept someone.

We shoud open our heart .Take our friendship seriously and comfortably.If there is someone who can company through all of your life ,I dare to say you are happy with bliss!I wish ereryone can do it !I wish --------

Travelling

Travelling I like travelling a lot .I don not know the reason.I guess I was a bird last life with a lot of freedom .I want to live like gypies who can go anywhere and do anything they like.Travelling around the world is my dream . I dream I has been to Africa,America,Europe------The north of Europe is my favourite,because I like winter very much .There is much fresh air and ice . Tranquil minds of people are kind and peaceful .I suppose the wind of winter can clear my life deeply.The buildings there are so beautiful and interesting .As we konw ,travelling often costs us much moeny and time ,in China ,it is very hard ,students are raised by family until they will have their own family .It is possible to plan during periods of holiday with some part-time jobs .I often save some money for my journey ,meanwhile , I do part -time job .Though it is very tired and boring ,I feel I learn some experience of society and the value of money !It is necessary for me to konw what labour is !A lot of friends who come form different places in the world are always travelling ,I want to say their living conditions are very different form us .It seems they never care money and time !my a few teachers come form England and America ,they often go out without any difficulties!I admire them very much !But It seems I have no choices !I don not want my parents to support my extral of my life , because it is unfair to them .Of course ,our ecnomic puts us into these limits in fact .
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Hello

Hello. I am Chinese girl .My chinese name is 赵伟格.English name is Eva .I am happy every day .

I am Eva Zhao

I'm Eva Zhao ,an English major .Mrs Li asked us to built our own blogger.She said it is very important and necessary to communicate with forein friends .We have seen her beautiful pictures taken from Austrilia.So wonderful .